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So I want to start by saying this is not
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scripted.
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I am sharing my authentic life with you
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right now.
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You are witnessing a real human being
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talk about real human things in real
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time.
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Feel like it's important to preface this
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video with that because it's so rare now
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for people to do that. And I think that
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while you're watching my video, you
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might be inclined to see me as content.
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But I want you to see me, the human
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being.
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My name is Sam. I'm 48 years old. I live
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in an RV.
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This is not an RV life channel. I chose
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an RV for a lot of reasons, but this is
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where I wanted to build a home for
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myself.
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A year and a half ago, I made that
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decision. And I started a YouTube
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channel at the same time because I
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wanted to share that journey with my
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audience with whatever audience I would
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build with with with humanity in
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general.
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I did this because
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I had built the life the society tells
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us to build. I had everything.
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I had a house. I had a very good job
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that paid well. I had a barn in my
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backyard full of Amazon boxes.
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because that's where I ordered
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everything.
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And I have none of that stuff now. I
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just gave it all away because
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there was no happiness in that life.
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So I made the decision to disrupt it
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completely. I quit my job.
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I gave away all of my things. I moved
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out of my house. I bought an RV
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and I began living on campgrounds
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and for six months I adapted to that
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reality.
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I had a lot of stuff that I needed to
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process and I did that on camera
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completely stream of consciousness
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hardly ever
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editing myself or censoring myself just
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giving truth to my audience.
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sharing my life authentically,
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my thoughts,
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my adventures, like if I'd go hiking or
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go to a lake,
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my experiences living in this RV,
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adapting to a completely different way
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of living because I had never there's so
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many things about living in an RV that
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were new to me.
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All of it I shared.
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Not for praise, not for validation,
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just to be a mirror for others so that
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they could see it was possible for them
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to make new choices. If they were
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feeling unsatisfied in their life, they
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could make new choices just like I had.
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I wanted them to see how I think, how
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how I adapt, how I solve problems. I
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wanted them to see my ethics because
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they're integrated.
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I wanted them to see how I grow because
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maybe
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by witnessing me do those things, they
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might find
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something in within themselves
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that resonates. It might trigger their
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own growth.
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My frame is never superficial.
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I always think about things deeply and
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it's just natural for me. It just I
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don't really have to think about it.
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It's just it's just layered. It's it's
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multi-dimensional.
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So,
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it's not performative.
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I legitimately wanted to help other
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people,
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but that was not the experience I had on
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this platform.
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There was a lot of trolling, a lot of
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unsolicited advice.
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criticism, just all of that. So, I
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turned comments off six months into my
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journey because
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I just didn't I don't feel like I should
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have to tolerate it. Like, I shouldn't
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have to tolerate that kind of negativity
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in my life just to be on this camera
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talking to people.
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And then I left Kentucky, my home for
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Oregon, which took over a month
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by myself,
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recording
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recording my transition to here
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without comments,
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just shedding all the things that were
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holding me back.
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By the time I was done, I was the freest
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I've ever been. When I got here,
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just wasn't the same person anymore.
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But it wasn't easy. For 6 months, I
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moved around a lot. I was adapting. I
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couldn't find work because I was never
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anywhere long enough for that kind of
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stability, for that type of work. And I
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always thought I would just return to
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freelance programming. That's what I'd
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always done. It was always my backup
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option.
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And I was working up
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after a very long career. I was working
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up.
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I was working back to it. I just wasn't
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ready. I was so many other things that I
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was trying to share and evolve from.
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So I kind of got it in my head by the
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time I get to Oregon, that's when we'll
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start doing let's get to Oregon. So I
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get to Oregon. I'm so broke at this
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point that I pulled the last of my money
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out of my checking account so that I
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have it converted to cash because I
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didn't want little bills eating it up
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because
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I needed that money to book my first two
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weeks at a campground here.
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That's what I did. I took every single
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dollar I had, but I got here.
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And like everybody, you know, you do
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your best. You just you find ways of um
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navigating that kind of situation. Like
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I would get little a little bit of work
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from like previous clients that kind of
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kept me going and I managed to keep
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going for another like three or four
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months till the end of the year.
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And then because I didn't have any money
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and I didn't know what I was going to
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do, I started volunteering for the state
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parks here.
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But that wasn't the only reason. I also
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was thinking, you know, maybe I don't
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have to go back to programming. Maybe I
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can become a park ranger.
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And I really love the state parks here.
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I had spent months sharing my
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explorations of those places with my
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audience.
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for a lot of reasons.
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It didn't go well. My first month there
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was fine. It was a a nice park. I met a
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lot of nice people, nice rangers.
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My second month, I went to a different
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park
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and things just blew up there. From the
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very beginning, one of the people there,
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the supervisor of the park, she just had
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an attitude towards me. And over one
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little incident that happened in the
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beginning, I've shared all this on my
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channel. I'm not going to go through it
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again. I did not do anything wrong. This
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is just
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what happens sometimes, I guess. I don't
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have a lot of experience with
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institutions, but her reaction to me to
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me to this day is shocking. And they
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spent two months torturing me there and
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then kicking me out. One shift away from
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the end of my time there. And I would
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have moved on to another park. And
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that's all I was trying to do was to get
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through that place so that I could
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continue my volunteering for the state
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parks because I had them lined up all
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year long, a full year of it. And I
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loved it.
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Well, they didn't let that happen. I
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have a page on my website about this and
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I encourage people to to read this.
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Going to just briefly show you this now.
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This page right here, honeyman.
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This page will tell you what happened to
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me. If you doubt me, if you think that I
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must have done something, read this
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and then watch this video. It's over an
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hour long. That's them sitting me down
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in the day use area at a picnic table
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and bullying me for over an hour. You
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can hear it in that video. The way they
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just tried to reframe everything. Just
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tried to make me sound like a monster.
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Told me they'd never give me the benefit
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of the doubt. Told me to eat glass. Told
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me I could leave if I wanted to.
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And then watch what happened next. When
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I talked to the person who oversees all
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of the state parks and the way she
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framed it without even knowing me,
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having already made up her mind, she
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dismissed me.
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This page tells the story.
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All of it is true.
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When that happened,
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I had no money and nowhere to go.
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So, I got on this camera and I told my
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audience what had been going on with me
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all of those months because I couldn't
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really post during that time because of
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the conflict of interest. But I told
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them what happened to me and I asked for
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help.
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Over a thousand people watched that and
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not one person helped me.
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I spent the next two weeks off grid,
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no water or power, still asking for
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help,
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doing the best I could to make it
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through every day to to build a life cuz
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that's what I'm trying to do here.
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And then after that, I started
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volunteering for a different institution
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where I am now. I've been here for 3
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months and it's going really well. I
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like it here. It's different. You might
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hear some noise in the background. Those
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are ATVs. This is a ATV uh campground.
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I tried to get a job in town. I kept
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pursuing
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a job at 7-Eleven for 2 months. I kept
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talking to this the same boss there, the
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guy. I think he's the owner. For two
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months, every time I'd go in there, I
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would talk to him and he would tell me
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he'd hire me. He just needed a little
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time.
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And then he hired me. He told me to come
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in Monday and he would we would do the
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paperwork. I show up Monday and he's not
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there. He's at a different store. So I
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drive down to that store,
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talk to him again.
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He says there was an emergency that he
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just had to go to the other store. I
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tell him I can work at both of these
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stores. Like I'm really trying to get
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this job and I I don't understand what
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the delay is.
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and
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he says he'll call me and he never does.
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And I'm like,
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how why is it so hard to get a job at
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like a place like that? Like I just it
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just boggles to mind that this man
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didn't just say, "I don't want to hire
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you for whatever reason." And it's not
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my piercings. It's not that I'm gay.
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It's none of those things because there
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are plenty of He's got new people in
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there every single week that I go in
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there. It just doesn't make sense to me.
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Well, I I just don't, you know, and so
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that's what I wanted to do. I didn't
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want to return to programming. I'd done
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it all my life since sixth grade. I have
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been programming all of my life and it's
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a stressful job and my my industry is
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rapidly changing right now because of
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artificial intelligence.
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And I've looked for jobs online on
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guru.com and on Upwork and they're not
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even opening the proposals, which has
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never happened.
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Um I I don't know. I'm just going to do
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this with you on camera. I will show you
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that I'm not lying about this.
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I might have to log into this. So you
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might want to skip ahead like you don't
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want to watch through, you know, that
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part. But I'm just going to show you
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because this isn't a joke. This is my
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real life.
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I don't understand why it has been so
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difficult someone like me who has been
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doing this for so long. But it tells me
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that things are a lot worse than we
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think they are.
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If any of these had been opened, it
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would say so right here.
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None of these have been opened.
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Every job that you applied to costs
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tokens. So, I have to be careful what I
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applied to. I applied to jobs that I
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think that I'm that I'm qualified for,
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that I would be a great fit for, and
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nobody is opening them.
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And I have a very good profile. I will
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show you that, too.
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this profile is, I think, really good.
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So, it's not, you know, if they're
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getting filtered on the back end, if
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there's some kind of algorithm that's,
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you know, ordering
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these proposals, I don't think mine's at
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the bottom, you know. I don't I don't
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think it's anything I'm doing. I think
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that these
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I think that there's something very
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strange about the fact that they're
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never read,
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but I don't really know what to make of
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it. I've got a bunch of portfolio uh
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videos that I created and all this other
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stuff.
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It's just it's very confusing to me. But
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that's what I'm doing now. That's what
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I'm trying um trying to find work on
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there. This is my last option. That was
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my That was my fall back. Eventually, I
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think I will, you know, but
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it hasn't been easy. The point of this
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video is it has not been easy. And I
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have been telling my audiences and every
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time I tell them nobody helps and I
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don't understand this. I don't
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understand how you can witness
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somebody's life.
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See that they're struggling and not
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offer to try to help.
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And it just feels wrong. It feels
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vampiric. It feels like you're taking
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something from me and not giving
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anything back because I have shared my
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life authentically on here for a year
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and a half. I have opened myself up to
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my audience. And the second it gets too
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real, they
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they basically ghost you, I guess.
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My thoughts on this are exceptionally
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nuanced because
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it's not an expectation.
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It's just shocking that so few are
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willing to help and I don't understand
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it.
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So I created this page, this
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contributions page
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and in every YouTube video. If you go to
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the description,
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you will find this
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and here is the link for supporting the
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field.
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I am asking my audience to consider
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helping.
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It's not an expectation. It's just
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shocking when it feels like there's no
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reciprocation.
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It doesn't matter if 10 people watch
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this video or a thousand or a million
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because behind every single one of those
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numbers is a human being watching
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another human being and choosing whether
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or not to help.
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Thanks for listening.
